First, as much as he wishes that he was on our team, I’m pretty sure that Stevie does not qualify as a Lesbian-Identified Male (LIM). Some people think that LIMs are essentially “fag-hags” for lesbians, but in fact there is so much more… Enough more that Stevie just doesn’t qualify, especially when you get to the “emotions” and “interpersonal relationships” portion of the descriptions. Try this for a brief overview on the concept, which even I had never heard of until I started watching The L Word. Maybe it’s a relatively new trendy gender-association category. Or, maybe I only knew full-on gay boys growing up. <grin>
Next, since I’m on the whole gender thing, is there a Lesbian-Identified Heterosexual Female? Maybe I’m just a lesbian trapped in a straight girl’s body?
Also, more on gender. I like being a girl. Even today, in cramp-o-licious hell, being a girl is better. So there.
And last, the shocking conclusion! I’m tired of having my hair all funkified. I’m going to do blue, because dammit I want blue hair, but after that… probably platinum. Then after that I’ll just grow it out to my lovely under-appreciated dark brown. That’s my big hair plan of the moment.